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WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 03:42 PM
what do u do in a long distance relationship. especially with someone u barely know. i met this girl from washington on xbl. she asked me to be her bf. idk though
Do you have feelings for her, feelings that would allow you to be closer with her?
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 04:24 PM
yes and no
explain, and I might be able to help.
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 04:28 PM
yea she is cool and all. but i barely know her. i met her last week. she calls and texts me every 5 minutes (while im in school)
Well, you should tell her that you want to get to know her better, because you rush into a relationship that's as serious as she claims to want.
MiZz Psych0
10-18-2006, 04:31 PM
Me personally, wouldn't accept that relationship. I'm just not one for long distance relationships, especially if I met them on XBL.
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 04:32 PM
yea. idk she threw it on me took me by suprise. i dont get any work done in school cause of her
MiZz Psych0
10-18-2006, 04:34 PM
yea. idk she threw it on me took me by suprise. i dont get any work done in school cause of her
Now that's definitely a problem. You MUST get your work done at school :)
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 04:34 PM
Me personally, wouldn't accept that relationship. I'm just not one for long distance relationships, especially if I met them on XBL.
yea. thats what i thought once i got locked into it. i was liek i just f***** myself
Sounds to me like she got too attatched too quickly.
Buddy H2O
10-18-2006, 05:22 PM
personally i think its kinda stupid to date online. I mean unless u plan on meeting eachother in real life soon. Then really theres no point. I mean i would AT LEAST wanna hold my gf's hand and you cant even do that online. Its just stupid IMO. But people have different perspectives and different reasons so its honestly up to you.
I agree with buddy, but I have to say, it did work with me for a while. say two years, I'm tired of it now though. I want a real relationship. It's all up to you.
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 05:57 PM
personally i think its kinda stupid to date online. I mean unless u plan on meeting eachother in real life soon. Then really theres no point. I mean i would AT LEAST wanna hold my gf's hand and you cant even do that online. Its just stupid IMO. But people have different perspectives and different reasons so its honestly up to you.
i agree with u. but i think im locked in now. unless anyone has any ideas
Night
10-18-2006, 06:22 PM
well, you see. if you really wanna go in, you have to trust them, alot, and be willing to make the sacrifices that most enjoy (i.e. cuddle, hold hands, watch sunsets [or is that just me]....and other various things :P). and yea, i agree with buddy on the whole. and you should know them more. and your not locked in. just talk to her, and tell her how you feel. you never know what the future might bring.
wish you the best of luck!
-Nick
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 06:26 PM
true thnx
Night
10-18-2006, 06:27 PM
no problem dude.
and i see your in KS...my uncles from around there...
you anywhere near Olathe? lol jw...i know...random
and if you play PC games...add me on xfire (if you have it) xxrammsteinmanxx
or xbox live - OFS Night (im getting on again sometime soon...im due for a rematch against old friends
-Nick
Sweet Pea
10-18-2006, 09:03 PM
She has obsession problems. Ditch her and dont ever speak to her again you hear me?
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 09:27 PM
She has obsession problems. Ditch her and dont ever speak to her again you hear me?
u really think so?
H2O Default
10-18-2006, 09:28 PM
In all honesty, what would you two do that a couple of really close friends couldnt do anyways? Just like it was said above, if you don't ever plan on meeting the person then friends are pretty much the level you would stay out. Just my opinion though...
Exactly. That's why I quit with the online thing. It became to stressful to keep in touch with the person. It's also so hard to trust a person in an online relationship when you live so far away. It's so eay to cheat and trust me, I've had horrible experiences with that and I don't want to relive it. As I said, it's your choice but I urge you not to get too involved in it, it's a waste of time for most people (no offence to anyone). Don't give her the wrong idea of what your intentions are either, that would only make her more clingy and harder to deal with.
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 09:35 PM
alright thnx for all the input guys. your all a huge help
your welcome weary. You know I'm always here for you. :)
WearyGamer
10-18-2006, 09:42 PM
yea. i know u are. u always have been. btw. im me when u get on. i have a serious matter
WearyGamer
10-19-2006, 08:18 AM
wow. now she wants nothing to do with me. and i didnt even have to do anything. she sent me a few angry texts. it appears she talked to soembody and found out how i felt and stormed off
PMS HateMaker
10-19-2006, 09:27 AM
LMFAO Sorry that was just an interesting relationship progression I read in two pages of forum text. Good thing man, you're better off.
PMS Slayergirl
10-19-2006, 09:40 AM
aww weary i am sry for everything going on...i agree with hatemaker mabye you are better off...
H2O SkywalkerX
10-19-2006, 10:42 AM
what was her gamertag? i live in washington, i might no her =P
but, in some ways i agree that online relationships can suck, (although i have never had a real relationship, so i can't say how bad online relationships really are) but most people already know my position in that kind of matter, i think, if you talk to the certain person for a couple months, and you find out you could in fact love that person, then you should be with them, holding hands and hugging is nothing compared to the feeling of love, nothing can be better than the feeling of someone loving you more than anything =] =[.
but yeah, it seems that your problem is already solved, so i guess this post is pointless =]
EDIT: oh and Night, please remove 2 items from your sig, there is a 1 sig limit, and both of those items are the size of a sig, use a smaller xfire banner, and remove the rtr banner please and thank you =]
Wow, if she found out how you felt from other people and didn't ask you personally, then she isn't worth your time. She should have talked to you about it first before assuming that what the person said was true.
H2O Fate
10-19-2006, 01:05 PM
Yeah your way better off dude. Seeing how wshe was obsessing over you and clinging. Texting every 5 mins is extreme. Kind of reminds me of some of those movies where the girl is so obsessive over the guy. finds out he does something and kills him. but same can be said about guys doing that to girls in the movies to haha. But its probably good idea she found out how you felt because clingy/obsessive people would just snap if you told them yourself. eh ah well she'll get over it.
WearyGamer
10-19-2006, 01:27 PM
what was her gamertag? i live in washington, i might no her =P
but, in some ways i agree that online relationships can suck, (although i have never had a real relationship, so i can't say how bad online relationships really are) but most people already know my position in that kind of matter, i think, if you talk to the certain person for a couple months, and you find out you could in fact love that person, then you should be with them, holding hands and hugging is nothing compared to the feeling of love, nothing can be better than the feeling of someone loving you more than anything =] =[.
but yeah, it seems that your problem is already solved, so i guess this post is pointless =]
EDIT: oh and Night, please remove 2 items from your sig, there is a 1 sig limit, and both of those items are the size of a sig, use a smaller xfire banner, and remove the rtr banner please and thank you =]
im sure u do know her zitch she like me just left pgs