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PMS Evil
08-05-2006, 12:28 PM
So here's my story.

I haven't talked to my boyfriend (Jamie) in a few days until yesturday. He was acting different, So i asked him how camping went and he says dont ask. So i dont, and we're going on, and i asked him how come we didnt talk earlier (beacause i knew he was home) he was like, oh i played truth or dare. And i was thiniking a few guys just having fun, but then messing around i go, what's her name and he says Marlease. So then i find out he kissed her! he kissed her! while goging out with me, and i asked him why would he do that and he said it meant nothing. But the way he talked about her, i swear it would have meant soemthing. So i forgive him and i talk to my friend and she says, what makes you think he wont do it again?!

advice please, i dont no what to do and im so so sadd!:(

H2O SkywalkerX
08-05-2006, 12:42 PM
hmm, well if it was a game of truth or dare, it probably didnt mean anything, but him being a guy, it could have in fact been something meaningful.
but if you love him, then just tell him not to do it again, even if it doesnt mean anything, and if he does it again, dump his sorry a$$.
his lose right :)

diana3
08-05-2006, 02:33 PM
I'm sorry, but weather it is truth or dare, a loyal boyfriend would never kiss another girl, even if it meant "nothing".

You have to approach your bf. Tell him that what he did wasn't cool at all.. and you probably wouldn't do it if you were in his situation.

Did he tell you about kissing her.. or someone else did?

EpiK SkillZ
08-05-2006, 02:36 PM
Guys will be guys, Truth or Dare is all fun, I'd understand if he quote on quote "tapped that", but I guess a kiss can't mean much.

Vinx
08-05-2006, 02:51 PM
i'd go with what diana said.

where did your bf go campin?

PMS Evil
08-05-2006, 03:21 PM
he went somewhwre in canada, and well he told me, and guys will be guys, but i woulf have to go with diana and vinx on this and take skywalers idea, if it happens again i dump his sorry a.. :)

EpiK SkillZ
08-05-2006, 03:29 PM
lol, yeah, he DOES deserve a second chance. But if he does it again, warm up that pimp hand :D

diana3
08-05-2006, 03:36 PM
haha you go girl!

Vinx
08-05-2006, 03:51 PM
he went somewhwre in canada, and well he told me, and guys will be guys, but i woulf have to go with diana and vinx on this and take skywalers idea, if it happens again i dump his sorry a.. :)

oh canada. there are some good camping grounds in pennsylvania and even in new jersey if you go to southern jersey.

PMS Panther
08-05-2006, 06:30 PM
I'm sorry, but weather it is truth or dare, a loyal boyfriend would never kiss another girl, even if it meant "nothing".

You have to approach your bf. Tell him that what he did wasn't cool at all.. and you probably wouldn't do it if you were in his situation.

Did he tell you about kissing her.. or someone else did?'

I completely agree with everything diana said...he didnt have to kiss her..well it was a dare but still no one MADE him...wow i really dont know what to say about what he did...and as for the people who are saying it didnt mean anything..he kissed some other girl while on a camping trip when he has a girlfriend....just doesnt make sense...If i were you katie i would be really mad..ok im done here:)

CaptainDemon
08-05-2006, 07:07 PM
Guys will be guys? What does that even mean? That it is characteristic of guys to commit infidelity? Geez, ya'll need to be a bit less hard on the gender with a Y chromosome.

Guys won't be guys, they'll be people. Your BF said it meant nothing, and I second the advice about confronting him about it. Set him straight, I doubt he'll do it again unless he thinks he's some player, and if that's the case what'd you see in him in the first place?

PMS Evil
08-05-2006, 07:13 PM
thanks

Look Its a Panda
08-06-2006, 07:53 AM
Kissing during "Truth Or Dare" can probably be compared into kissing relatives. Chances are that it didn't mean anything, and that he didn't have any further intentions - and chances are that he was intoxicated, which means you should read even less into this.
The best thing you can do now is talk to him about it, and say that it makes you uncomfortable. Chances are, that he will respect this, and realize that this behaviour are to be avoided in the future. A little lie can a save a relationship, so I'm surprised that he didn't act casual about it from the start.

Oh well.

Paulina
08-06-2006, 04:44 PM
Truth or Dare is all fun

Apparently Not For Me...I Get In Crap For It