Ex GF = ...?

[Sweet Pea]

Well either she really wants other guys to buy her stuff cause shes like poor or something or she doesn't like you anymore. I don't know I don't really KNOW her so I guess I can't really say anything. But she kinda sounds like a gold digger.

[Wafer]

thats a tough one man,
its really hard especially if you started living with that person, and getting to see there face every day, it will have to depend on you man, how you really feal about the relationship, if you think that she's the only one then you got to think on it very hard, if things are going like the way they are, then most likely she doesnt really care on how you feel about it, by her wanting guys to buy her stuff, maybe that shows a little imaturaty in how other people feel, meaning she's not gonna really care if she hurts another person,

but do what you think is right man, i think deep down you know how and what needs to be done

[blueraven7]

Yep, she could be a gold digger. It seems like she's looking for an excuse to hook up with another guy. She might not be taking this relationship seriously, or might not in the future if you allow her to walk over you. But I don't know her well enough to really give a good judgment, so it's really up to you to decide what her true motivations are.

[PMS Strawberry]

yeah thats really harsh :(if she says something like that she obviously doesnt care about you as much as you do her..i mean i could be wrong cause i dont know her or anything but thats really harsh. dont let her walk over you cause she could be thinking 'oh, he'll come back to me when i want him'....i mean i could be totally wrong! :confused: my best advice, just talk to her about how you feel and what the extent of it is.

[dorkiz]

Pretty much any gold digger isn't going to just have guys buy them stuff for free... So, she's going to at least be kissing some guy at a minimum that'll buy her a load of crap. It's just not worth it man.

Generally, if a relationship needs "a break" it's over for the most part. There is a huge difference between giving each other a little space to think and calling something a break. The latter generally isn't recoverable. It's usually done to lead to breaking it off completely, or letting the partner fool around. :(

[Punkie]

Yeha i think u should move on before she does something to just hurt you more.

[blueraven7]

Omegatheory, I feel ya :(. I just turned single, so I'm playing a lot more video games, while not going out as much. I did it all for good reasons: I can't be hurt when school begins. :(

[diana3]

Talk to her, and ask her what that was all about? maybe she was having one of those mood swings/emotional moments that just came out..
PS:as cheesyy it might sound lisent to your heart ;)

[dorkiz]

Ok... If you're looking for a relationship, the last place you want to go is a nighclub/bar. I do security for one, and the people that go on a regular basis aren't really relationship material. ;)
If you're just looking for someone to get her out of your mind at the moment, it's the best place to go, however.

[Big Boss]

Yes...last night should've gotten your mind off her..

It got my mind off alot of stuff.

[H2O Default]

Man, I say break it off. If she was really interested in you two staying together she wouldn't have sent you that email with that second option clearly outlined. She wouldn't have said anything about "Calling it off so that she can move on" she would have just pressed on and not presented that as an option. It just isn't fair to you if she expects you to put time into a relationship that she isn't going to match.

[Big Boss]

To cheer you up, I decorated your room a bit..

Check it izzout!

[H2O Default]

I think your better off man. Sounds like she tried to blame you for her having a date with someother guy.

[H2O.pry0r]

If she's moved one, remember this saying "Don't cry over someone that's not willing to cry over you."