View Full Version : six months, what should i get her?
Wafer
06-29-2007, 11:21 PM
ok ok ok so my giirlfreind and i are gonna be celabrating our six month anniversary hehe,
*thinks* im sure people do celebrate that dont they? *shakes head* well any way
what should i get her? what do you girls like from ur boys? gotta help me hehe im really bad with these things hehehe
i was just thinking of taking her out for a day of pampering, like let her go and get ur self all dolled up, then take her out shopping then take her out to dinner, but i dont know,
is that enough? i mean is that too simple and dull? what you think?
hehehh she says i dont need to get her anything
but i know you girls say that, but really mean "you better get me somthing" heheh so help please heheheh
Well Wafer I would focus more on the DOING as opposed to the GETTING. Things are nice to have, and you should certainly get her something, but here's something my husband and I did together:
Draw eachother. Nothing nude... lol, but here's how you do it. Sit in front of eachother and draw eachother's faces... WITHOUT looking at the paper. Do not look down at the paper at all, but instead focus on trying to get her nose perfect, even though you might be drawing it on her forehead. Reasons for doing this? 1) it's fricking hilarious to look at afterwards, and 2) it can be extremely *piercing* when you get to drawing her eyes. You are forced to look right into eachother's eyes, and it's breathtaking. Maybe even a passionate moment?
Oh well. Another fun date idea is to buy a disposable camera and snap away throughout the night, regardless of what you do. Take stupid pictures, unposed and on-the-fly. Sometimes, these turn out to be the best.
And if you get her flowers, something that my husband did was to know what the flower stood for (aka Peach/coral rose = passion, etc.)
But focusing on DOING things is, in my opinion, what makes the event most memorable.
<3
Catalina DSO
06-30-2007, 12:21 AM
It isn't about getting stuff. Something from your heart means more. There have been many times over the almost 23 years of my marriage that my husband didn't have any money to get me anything. You know what...... it didn't stop him from writing a poem straight from his heart especially for me. Or picking a flower and giving it to me with a kiss. Those types of things mean much more because it means you are giving a part of yourself.
Clov3r
06-30-2007, 01:11 AM
My boyfriend got me a box of Xmen comics for Valentines Day. It bwas his entire collection - and I absolutely love it! Like seriously. Collecting X-men Comics is my life!!! ok maybe not my life, but a hobby of mine, heh.
Because I love the Xmen alot. And he wanted to get me something personal that Id appreciate. Just like I once told him a single rose is more romantic than a boquet. He gives me one every now and then, just because its a weds or just because I got a booboo that day.
A bunch of little romantic things like that always win me over :)
Wafer
06-30-2007, 02:25 AM
heheh well guys i know that hehehe,
im a art major, doing the still life studies are really good, iv done a number of thos with her before, yes the eyes always come out very good heheh
i just want to take her out to have some fun, every girl diserves some fun hehehe, she does poetry alot, her poems to me and mine to her are really a good way to connect
thank you clover,catalina, bekrecca heheheh
you guys gave me a new idea on what i can do,
one thing i wanna always be is orginal, with that in mind she will always know that im always trying above average for her heheheh,
she's always happy tho with the small things
does the small things really do count?
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ALSO, weird thing is clover, hehehe my girlfriend baught me a rose!!
come to find she got it cuz my bday flower heheheh, first i thought wow, a rose for a guy hehe then i got it hehe, yup yup the small things do matter,
thank you ladies hehehehehe
Clov3r
06-30-2007, 02:45 AM
gl! let us know what ya do! ^__^
LOA Dubz
06-30-2007, 10:33 AM
Listen right.
First off, Tell her to get dressed up...its a night on the town.
Take her to a nice restaurant. i Prefer olive garden, or something along them lines. Afterwards, take her some wherez else to get ice cream. Than top it off with a nice romantic walk along a beach/ nice place( old styled street or something with cobblestone)
Wafer
06-30-2007, 01:16 PM
KICK ASS DUBS HEHEHEH
thats exactly what i was going to do heheh, theres this resteraunt, yanagi, its a japanese resturant right near the beach, i mean you can see the beach right after and theres a colstones ice cream place right along the board walk of the beach hehehe,
gosh you guys come up with alot of good idea's hehehe, hm.....yet i gotta make it somthing special....somthing that some one hasnt done before, or to her knowlege heheh